Peek A Boo

Here I am! A few days ago, I made a decision that made a big/positive impact on me and my family, but apparently, upset a few people. I cancelled Facebook. Why is that such a big deal? Well, I guess my reasoning for it was confirmed. I did it because I am sick of the drama. I've got so much going on in my life, the complex feelings and drama of facebook was making everything more difficult. When someone would post or say something that really upset me, I couldn't just shake it. In the world of FB, you don't dare question people or you start a war. Tone of voice and sincerity just don't translate through typed words. People would jump on me for the littlest things, and then didn't want to listen to me explain the misunderstanding. It would be on my mind way too much; a problem with a friend or family member that I couldn't fix. And I was at the mercy of them getting over it, when they felt I had suffered enough, or they needed something from me. Seriously, this stuff does not happen in phone conversations or face to face relationships. It's ridiculous! Then, sometimes, Matthew would chime in trying to fix it for me (cos that's why God put him on Earth, ya know?). I would get so mad at him as HE would jump to a conclusion without understanding the whole situation or where I was coming from. Yeah, ANYTHING that gets between me and my husband needs to be removed from my life. Surely, I could have sat down with him each time and explained it all in a full length conversation so he understood and didn't try to fix, and we didn't have a misunderstanding between us; but why do that if I can just remove FB from my life? So, I am sorry to those that are upset that I did this. I must say, though, if you had been around the other night when I decided to do it, you would have told me (probably 2 hours before I did it) to delete my account. It's really not worth it, really! So, I am going to make my best effore to blog at least 3 times a week. I am hoping to get pictures loaded and share a quick tutorial on those bandana dresses. A lot of y'all have asked me how I make them. I snapped pictures the other day as I made one so I could share. And sometime in the next couple days, I'll talk about our big birthday weekend. Alohi is now 1, Ki is 3 (today, but to not confuse him, he thinks he turned 3 at his party on Friday), and I'm 30 now, and LOVING it!